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What About This?
It’s easy to get wrapped up in the seriousness of our work and forget the lightness we felt when we first started down the path that led us to where we are now.
Sure, it’s important work and we should take it seriously, but it shouldn’t feel serious, or heavy, or somber.
For many of us pursuing creative, entrepreneurial lives, we wrap our self-worth up so inextricably with the work we do that we become cautious about taking risks, worried that any failed experiments in our work reflect equally upon us as people.
And then, of course, there’s the posturing.
The need we all seem to feel to pretend that we know exactly what we’re doing at every moment, that every success was the result of a masterstroke of strategic planning, and any failures — if we share them — were the result of impossible to predict events that ruined our otherwise exquisite planning.
It feels amateurish to come across as light-hearted and playful about our work–no matter how meaningful it is–when there are so many people who are so keen to display how seriously they take their work.
We feel like we must not be real entrepreneurs, real leaders, real artists if we don’t approach the work…